Mystery often provokes intrigue, excitement, and thrill. When watching a mystery movie, you are often left at the edge of your seat in anticipation of the next key step and the finale, when everything is revealed in full. Mysteriousness has the same effect when it comes to dating.
People are often attracted to and intrigued by those who seem mysterious.
Whether it has to do with the challenge of getting to know the person, or the thrill of not knowing where the relationship will take you, there’s no doubt that mysteriousness is essential for successful dating.
Here are some tips on how to give yourself a mysterious edge and gain more success in dating.
Keep yourself busy and active.
Oftentimes, when someone comes across to you as a mysterious person, it’s because their lives seem busy and full of action. When someone suddenly has to leave for “something important” or out of nowhere they arrive at a social event, it often makes them seem more interesting and it makes you wonder what else is going on in their lives.
One of the best ways to make yourself come across as mysterious is to keep your life busy. It isn’t about consciously trying to be mysterious, but, instead, it’s about living an active life.
Try hanging out with more than one social circle, take up a hobby, exercise, or go out more often. Not only will it make you feel more active and seem more mysterious to other people, but it’s also healthy for you, because you meet more people, enjoy more experiences, and have more fun.
Never make yourself too available.
Another aspect of being mysterious is to avoid making yourself too available to other people. When you’re always available and willing, it will seem as though nothing important is going on in your life.
If you are not always available for others, then it keeps them wondering about you and it keeps them waiting on edge for the next time they get to be with you.
In fact, keeping yourself busy and active will naturally translate to not being openly available all the time.